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She understood my mother, well enough, to work with her, for several years. She anticipated my Mum’s needs and set the trolley for the delivery, before the baby arrived and handed my Mum, every instrument she needed, without asking. Once the baby was out , she used to clamp the cord and take the infant to the side table , hold the baby, by both the feet, upside down and smack their pale, meconium stained bottoms, all the while crooning in Mandarin. Only when the baby screamed gustily at the top of their lungs, would she leave the baby wrapped in a warm towel in the crook of the adoring mother’s arms. If a mother or baby was sick, or needed her attention , she would stay back without being asked. She was my Mum’s right arm and her left arm. She was my Mum’s Mandarin speaking Guardian Angel.
go to site Reluctantly, we had to let her go. Eventually we went to say our final goodbyes to a warm hearted lady who had adopted us, as we had her. It was the end of an era for us.
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